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My Apologies Scotty

On my last post…I was very critical and hateful to someone  I let the hurt that I was still carrying around cloud my judgment. I took rumors and hearsay and presented them as fact. I have now learned that they are not true. Not even a little.

I had said that my ex Scotty had been dumped by 4 people and that his nape piercing had become infected. Neither of these two things ended up being true. I contacted, today, the sources of this information. They confirmed that they were talking out of their asses. They also confirmed that to the best of their knowledge the statements made by Scotty, see below, are accurate.

So this is my apology. I am truly sorry Scott, for spreading these falsities. As I said in the comments to you and others. I truly hope nothing but the best for you. I know you are going back to school and now have goals and drive. I know that you and your boyfriend are happy.

Again, I’m sorry about all this.

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  1. I want to let you in on a little secret. It is very very true that people who have nothing to say will resort to saying what most people will find damaging to their self esteem. The man is there trying to say bad stuff about you and going back in the past to bring up situations that were probably different just to make you feel bad.

    Yes you were misinformed but so what, he could have asked you about that in a better way than going off like that. I don’t like that. I don’t like that you are over there taking what he says personally and agreeing with him. DON’T DO THAT. Nothing he said has anything to do with you today. He knew you were sick but yet he is sitting there acting like the situation was different.

    I don’t like that but I won’t say anything else. You know where to find me.

  2. @Phone Girl No, Scott has every right to be mad. The information I was given was incorrect. I should have done more checking and not just relied on rumors.

    But he was right in his comments about me. There is no denying most of it. There are a few points I could argue about the total of the relationship. But, he was right and correct about the personal stuff. I was bad in bed and I was broke as a joke.

    It does hurt and has deflated me more than a bit. But could you imagine what sorts of things I would have to say if I found an article out there that was even slightly misinformed like that? I would start a war of words. You know that to be true. So, give him a break. I’ll bounce back from the comments, in time.

    But he is doing well and is trying to better himself. You gotta give him props for that. So lets wish him all the best and move on.

  3. Yes he can be mad, I would be mad if I found something like that too that was untrue but….it was like he was using that incident to make even more jabs at you. To throw his “betterment” and you “wasn’t good enough for me” attitude up in your face and I don’t like that.

    When you two were together, did he know you were broke, I’m sure he did and didn’t he know why you were bad in bed, because it was painful, also I’m sure he knows that too but he is bringing it up now like he never knew those things and he is using those things to put you down, where it was ok then, now he taking it out of context….I don’t know, I don’t like people like that. I don’t like when they use anything to bring down someone.

    He had every right to be mad about the rumors you posted but he should have kept it at that and only that…thats all I’m going to say. I don’t like people messing with my Evan

  4. Matchmaking for Men

    It takes a lot to admit your mistakes and openly say sorry to someone.I admire that.

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